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From pressure-driven intimacy to embodied presence
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The new approach leaders, CEOs, tech founders, engineers and executives are using to shift away from performance mode in the boardroom and the bedroom.
Better connections and deeper intimacy — without quick fixes, or performance hacks.
The method in 3 minutes
Ready to connect your emotional and intellectual strengths?
Pressure to Presence Framework
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Map your pressure patterns across work, intimacy, and relationships with guided inquiry and Erotic Blueprint™️ assessment.
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Connect to your body with Somatic tools & Mindful Intimacy.
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Untangle self-worth from performance and clean up control strategies.
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Learn to hold intensity where it counts using the Entrepreneurial Seduction™️ framework.
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Accountability and a personal blueprint for magnetic charisma, and a redefined masculinity that inspires others.
Confidential. 1:1. Personalized.
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About Rachael
I’ve mentored over 25 leaders, CEOs, tech founders, engineers and executives who are tired of the internal split between high performance and intimate disconnection.
My approach is direct and practical. Work with me privately, and in 30 days :
→ You move from performance mode to presence.
→ Intimacy stops feeling like something to get right, and becomes an experience.
→ Desire becomes more available.
→ Connection feels easier.
A change that carries across leadership, communication, and every relationship you have — professional and personal.
Men who work with me see these results
✓ Less pressure and “self-checking” during intimacy
✓ More consistent access to desire (without pushing)
✓ Better emotional range in conversations (without losing authority)
✓ Calmer decision-making under stress
✓ Stronger presence: at home and at work
When your life runs at high intensity, pressure doesn’t stay in one area. It shows up in how you connect professionally & intimately.
Is this you right now?
Pleasure and Performance are hard to separate
At work, it looks like:
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staying late even when you’re exhausted
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leading from control when you’d rather lead from clarity
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tighter communication under stress: less patience or curiosity, more defensiveness
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feeling responsible for everyone’s emotional climate
At home, it looks like:
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being physically present but mentally elsewhere
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avoiding certain conversations because they feel too heavy
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keeping your distance instead of allowing yourself to feel close
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intimacy turning into something you manage, not something you enjoy
It’s time to break the cycle.
→ You lead with intellect but their's untapped potential blocked by your body and emotions.
→ You’ve already proven you can master complex demands with discipline and intellect.
→ Yet that same internal wiring has quietly turned intimacy & connection into pressure.
What's included?
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10 x 60-Minute Sessions, at your rhythm
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Custom Erotic Blueprint™️ Mapping
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Entrepreneurial Seduction™️ Coaching
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Mindful Intimacy & Somatic Toolkit
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Unlimited Async Support: Voice notes & full access to EDGE
Client Stories
John, tech founder (anonymised)
Work and life pressure leaked into his marriage: overthinking, tension, and a sense of “I should be able to handle this.” We mapped his schema, built a downshift protocol, and trained presence in real scenarios. After just 30 days: intimacy felt simpler, and his leadership communication became calmer and cleaner.
How Does the Pressure to Performance Method™ Work?
You've been conditioned to live in performance mode: stay sharp, stay in control, don’t slip, keep delivering.
This system built your career. But over time it became your default mode. Pleasure becomes harder to access, connection needs more effort, and even professionally you're less patient, more defensive, and carry even more pressure to prove yourself and reach new goals.
This method is designed to help you stop living in one gear:
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We identify where performance mode takes over — in intimacy, in communication, and in high-stakes moments — and what it looks like for you (self-checking, control, shutting down, staying guarded).
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We map what brings you confidence and pleasure: what genuinely ignites desire, what blocks you, and what helps you feel present in your body rather than managing the moment.
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From there, we retrain your default response through guided practice — so pressure stops running the show and presence becomes more available, both in the bedroom and in leadership.
The result: stronger self-confidence, more reliable access to pleasure, and a calmer, clearer way of relating to people — in every relationship you have, professional and personal.
Strictly confidential. Private 1:1. High discretion by default.